One of the best gifts in life is friendship. These two boys pictured above have been friends since birth and have the Atlantic Ocean that separates them. A friendship that doesn’t skip a beat. They have a true connection and time apart doesn’t change a thing. We were truly given a special Christmas gift this year. Aleisi’s friend, Hashim came for a three week visit.
Hashim is eleven and traveled alone from Amsterdam to be reunited with his mate, my son, Aleisi. The laughter, banter, creativity, and adventures were endless. They chatted till the wee hours and slept in like high school boys. Two boys just being true to themselves. Lego creations were literally out of this world. Xbox playing was loud and explosive. Sneaking peppermint bark for breakfast was the norm. Star Wars movie marathon was a must and lots of Red Hot Chili Peppers became the soundtrack.
Saying goodbye can be bittersweet and can hurt your heart like nothing else! How can this be? A true friendship without rules, all accepting and full of laughs is hard to not have in your everyday life. But the gift of creating memories that one can look back at and smile is all worth that moment of sadness when you have to say “till we meet again”. As you may have read from an early post from me, I can truly relate to this feeling when a dear friend whisks in for a visit and departs in the blink of an eye. Donna is also from Amsterdam. What is in the Dutch water or is it all the milk they drink? They know the meaning of friendship! It has been a couple of weeks since Hashim’s departure but the warm thoughts are still going strong. xo
I feel like a superhero, a ninja mama, a bad ass; all at the same time. Where to start? What is the motivator?
Luckily for me, two years ago my chiropractor punted me to Beth Zeitlin, a personal trainer. Beth immediately rocked my world and I have never looked back. I am happy to say she has become my friend and someone I admire. Since our time together, my view on fitness has evolved and I love the new direction it is going. I have balance, confidence, and appreciation. Beth has knowledge, experience, and she inspires me to challenge myself. Most importantly, I connect with her approach. We also have plenty of laughs along the way.
My focus on physical strength in the gym has taken a true commitment on my part. It was the right time and right person in my case. The focus and goals are simple with efficient workouts. If I am going to sacrifice a bit of my day I want it to be challenging, rewarding, and a whole lot of fun. It is elective but a priority. My sessions range from TRX, pull ups, monkey bars to planking like a mofo except when my shoulder acts up. I never really know till I get in there. Beth challenges me with what I think is the unthinkable.
I am my own super hero. I am running around with my son and never not feeling capable. I want to be a role model for Aleisi and model the behavior I preach to him. I want to keep my body moving and practice a healthy lifestyle. This is what I can control. These are my motivating goals. It is a piece to my puzzle. I work out twice a week and I love every minute of it! My workouts are a total outlet for me especially when my world is spinning or one of those total shit show mornings decides to grace me. But a few pull ups later and it is all in the rear view mirror! Sometimes I just need to get out of my own way. I am hoping over time to share more about my time with Beth. Perhaps some guest posts from the true bad ass herself! That would be amazing!! xo
Goal: To be healthy, treat my body kindly, not take it for granted, and never stop moving. I have to be my own motivator!
Digging through the closet these days! Getting bored and needed to break out my old favorites:) Honestly most of my clothes are pieces that I have collected over the years and I can’t seem to part with them. Here are last year’s J.CREW leather leggings bought from NET- A-PORTER paired with an old Marni favorite scored from Barneys. Worn with black Vans. Timeless and easy! I remember sale shopping post holiday a few years ago and being super excited when I spotted this sweater. Clearly the best time to shop if you have it in you. Typically I do not! So happy for the old to be new again!
Very excited for my lips to have a refreshing splash of color for the winter months. I want a quick hint of color with that au naturel look! The EVE LOM Kiss Mix is moisturizing with a soft sheen. I have been wearing it on its own and as a base for my two new lipsticks from LIPSTICK QUEEN.
Eden is a fab semi sheer red. Baby steps towards approaching a true red. I love that it is moisturizing with a pop of color. Perfect for an evening night out. Golden box number two, The Saint Coral, is the perfect everyday lipstick. A pale nude with a hint of brown. My day time look is natural and no fuss. Lip gloss is as fancy as I typically get. So to find a lipstick to wear during the day while running around has been a score. Maybe 2018 will have me branching out a little more in the makeup world. Especially after watching The Crown. Margaret’s makeup is so moody and glamorous! I’m thinking a lesson or two first would be wise to avoid looking like the joker.
Did you know? Lipstick Queen was founded by Poppy King an eighteen year old at the time from Melbourne Australia, who couldn’t find her perfect lipstick. There you have it!
Wishing for dreamy viewing than check out my new latest Netflix love, Chef’s Table. So far it has been an amazing and inspiring series about six of the world’s greatest chefs. I have traveled to Italy, the North West corner of Massachusetts, Patagonia, Los Angeles, New Zealand, and Sweden. The cinematography is beautiful, the authenticity of the chefs is heart grabbing, and the food is revolutionary. I’m in love with Massimo Buttura and his electric personality!
Need more inspiration than check out My Next Guest Needs No Introduction With David Letterman, a once a month interview with David Letterman and a global leader that is sure to inspire. First interview is with President Barack Obama. Enough said! The interview is one on one on an open stage with no band and no distractions. David Letterman is back and better than before with a personal style he is enjoying. Check out the beard!
Dreamy reading inspiration. Enjoy The New York Times recently released 52 Places to Go in 2018. Always amazed with the beauty that world has to offer. Happy browsing!
Meet Astis, the ultimate outdoor mittens! I was introduced to these stunning handcrafted mittens from a sweet, stylish friend of mine who loves to ski. She rocks these mittens like no other. She puts them to the test in the elements for which they are designed, the freezing temperatures of Vermont. Beautifully crafted suede mittens with a forearm that can be decorated with beadwork, cowhide pattern and fur trim. All the mittens and gloves are lined with Polartec Thermal Pro High loft material that is dry wicking which in return will keep your hands warm and dry. Don’t let the highly stylized mitten fool you. They are durable and are meant to be worn not just for apre! Astis combines modern technology and the time-honored tradition of handcrafted artistry. Each piece is unique and a work of art. I own a pair and my hands couldn’t be happier or warmer! Oh Yeah! I love a stylish and functional find! xo
All images from Astis
Awesome Fact: Astis was founded out of necessity by Brad and Charlie, two friends with the love of outdoors. Brad was gifted a pair of beloved Cree mittens that unfortunately were also loved by his dog. Those furry friends of ours are always up to mischief! After much research, prototypes,and determination along came Astis. All mittens and gloves are hand stitched in the U.S.A!
I love my Fridays. I get to kick-start the day my way! Weekends can be really busy. So carving out a window is a priority for me. Getting after it in the gym for an hour is rewarding and a gift to myself. Well and to my family. I’m just happier what else can I say.
I have added a new post workout reward to the mix if time allows. Today I stopped by Mother Juice. I’m a fan! It feels cold as f..k outside(no sun:( so I was waffling between something cold or something hot. I know it sounds ridiculous. I went for both! I ordered my usual favorite Almond Love smoothie . Which I swap out strawberries for blueberries. I’m a pain in the arse and I know it! I also grabbed myself lunch. I’m a sucker for coconut so the carrot coconut soup made it an easy choice along with the grab and go kale caesar salad. TGIF!